NYC Is Hard Mode for Dogs: How to Train Without a Backyard
And it’s no different for our dogs.
The environment is stacked against you
No backyards.
Crowded streets full of people, dogs and everything on wheels whizzing by.
Sidewalks filled with treasure troves of things our dogs want to eat and shouldn’t.
The city adds pressure (even from humans)
The constant threat of social pressure as someone watches you and your dog who won’t think twice about telling you what you SHOULD be doing.
Potty training 20 floors up.
This is the part people miss. Your dog doesn’t realize “potty time” starts the second you notice they have to go. To them, it’s: wait for the elevator… lobby… front door… sidewalk… and somehow still hold it the whole time.
Most NYC dogs weren’t built for this
The fact that dogs thrive in nature, not the concrete jungle.
Just like rent, everything for our dogs is more expensive here.
And above all, many dogs who come to live in NYC were born elsewhere and not socialized to the crazy and chaotic world that is our 5 boroughs. I don’t see many reputable breeders on 5th avenue…
If you’re a true NYer you should have a small grin on your face as you think about all this and the parallels to your own life.
I hope you’re thinking this is good news. You’re a NYer, and nothing is more quintessential to being a NYer than embracing a challenge, getting creative and being proud of your results!
You've learned to not only thrive in NY, but love living here. You can do the same for your dog.
To paraphrase a classic NY anthem:
If you can train your dog here, you can have your dog thrive everywhere.
The good news: hard mode creates elite dogs (if you train with a plan)
NYC doesn’t “allow” lazy training.
If you wing it, the city eats you alive: your dog rehearses pulling, scavenging, overstimulation, reactivity, door explosions, elevator nonsense, and “selective hearing.”
But if you train with a progression, NYC becomes an unfair advantage.
Because once your dog can succeed here, the suburbs feel like easy mode.
Cheat Codes are the antidote to hard mode
Here’s the core idea:
You don’t need perfect conditions. You need a progression plan.
Start where your dog can win, build clean reps, then deliberately level up until it’s just… life.
Cheat Code #1: Patience and lower expectations
Your dog didn’t choose to live in NYC and has no idea what they’re literally about to walk into.
The first 6 months of owning your dog, you need to have extreme patience and lower your expectations.
That doesn’t mean “accept chaos forever.” It means: stop judging your dog for being overwhelmed by the environment you dropped them into.
Your job early on is to build the dog’s “city nervous system”:
what noises mean (nothing)
what stranger mean (nothing!)
what dogs mean (on leash - nothing!!)
what “leave it” and “let’s go” actually mean
what to do when pressure shows up in tight spaces
Cheat Code #2: Carve out your places to train (then roll it into your routine)
Yes, distractions are inevitable and yes we don’t want to set our dogs up for failure by trying to teach and train them in environments that are too chaotic for any learning or progress to take place.
But all that should tell you is that you need to find the right places and the right time to train.
The park that doesn’t allow off leash dogs, your apartment hallways, mailroom and lobby. The dead end side street that is unusually quiet…
These are the areas that you can start really building reliability with your dog before you ask them to listen on your busiest walks.
Not to mention a studio apartment is a perfect size to start teaching your dog.
This is the part people miss: where you train is temporary.
You’re not trying to become the person who “only trains in the hallway.” You’re using the hallway to build the skill so you can later use the skill everywhere.
If you want the simplest rule:
Install it in a calm pocket
Proof it at the edge of real life
Generalize it on your real routes
Then it becomes routine
Birdie was doing what a lot of city dogs do—walking outside with her brain scattered everywhere. Sounds, smells, wheels, people, dogs… she wasn’t “bad,” she was just living in New York City on hard mode.
So we stopped trying to fix it on the busiest part of the walk.
We installed one simple rule in tiny pockets: sit and wait until released. Before leaving the apartment. Before the elevator opened. Before exiting the building.
And once she started winning those reps, the walk changed. She began checking in more, staying connected longer, and looking for opportunities to get it right instead of getting pulled away by everything.
Cheat Code #3: Find your slice of nature
Yes we live in the concrete jungle.
But thanks to visionaries like Frederick Law Olmsted and Calvert Vaux (the creators of Central Park and Prospect Park) and Robert Moses (hate him or love him, we wouldn’t have as many parks throughout the 5 boroughs without him) there are plenty of parks to take your dog off leash in.
Off-leash rules vary by park, area, and time, so check your local signage and park rules and don’t assume the schedule is universal.
Prioritize finding your slice of nature, training your dog to be reliable off leash and build it into your routine. This might be the ultimate cheat code for helping your dog be the ultimate NYer.
The real NYC plan (what to do this week)
If you take nothing else from this:
Stop trying to train everything on your hardest walk.
Pick one skill. Build it in a pocket. Then bring it to the street.
Step 1: Choose one skill for the week
Pick one:
loose leash walking (leash slack + check-ins)
“place” / settle
leave-it (especially for sidewalk treasure)
recall foundations (not “off leash today”—foundations)
Step 2: Choose two training pockets
One inside pocket + one outside pocket.
Examples:
inside: hallway, mailroom, lobby, stair landing
outside: dead-end block, quiet side street, park edge (not the chaos)
Step 3: Run tiny sessions (10 minutes total)
This is the part that feels too small… until it works.
3 minutes inside pocket (clean reps)
3 minutes outside pocket (same reps)
4 minutes on your real walk using the skill (one notch harder)
Do that 5 days this week and your dog will look “suddenly better” — when really you just stopped throwing them into the deep end.
Step 4: Use a pass/fail test
This is how you keep NYC from gaslighting you.
Example:
PASS = your dog can do 10 reps in the pocket with 80% success
FAIL = you’re asking too much (reduce duration, increase distance, simplify the picture)
No shame. Just data.
Why this matters
NYC is not the place for vague advice.
Your dog doesn’t need “more stimulation.” Your dog needs clarity, progression, and a routine that makes sense in the city you actually live in.
And once you build that?
You don’t “go train.”
You just live… and your dog knows how to exist in your world.
If you want help, here’s the simplest way I work with people
If you want your dog to thrive in NYC without guessing, I can map your dog’s progression: what to train first, where to train it, and how to level it up until it becomes your routine.
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